Don’t give up, Susan Thornbury has some words of inspiration and an action plan for us during these hot days of summer.
August 15, 2024
Memory is strange. Most thoughts and memories are unhelpful. So much so that often a deep breath and a reminder that they are just thoughts and memories and not reality seems to be indicated. But then when least expected a flash of amazingly helpful inspiration!!
After listening to a weather forecast –given after the meteorologist offers an apology for what will be coming–and then stepping out to look at the garden already in a negative frame of mind and naturally seeing trouble everywhere—a song came –the words very loud and clear: “I”M GOING TO STAND MY GROUND YOU KNOW I WON’T BACK DOWN I’M GOING TO STAND MY GROUND”
Now don’t rush to judgement on that song–in this case it was crystal clear what the meaning was–it was aimed at gardeners!!
Not those in “other places” Places where the nights are cool it rains at least once a week and where things “just seem to grow” Oh no, they don’t get a song–it was not meant for them.
It was meant for gardeners here–it was meant for US!!
It is just such a temptation to give up–Its so hot and yet weeds are thriving–the list of “NOT FAIR” is a long one
But not for us to dwell on that: WE WILL NOT BACK DOWN WE WILL STAND OUR GROUND”
We can’t just think about it though–a plan is needed!
Each plan must suit the planner of course but–there are some important point that might be universal.
First give serious thought to becoming a morning person–if you start at 7AM –its not so bad and you can get a lot done in an hour or two. If this is not your usual habit–well just tell yourself–when November comes you can sleep late!!
Second set priorities. Take a good look and decide what must be done now some things can and should wait until later. One thing is usually deadheading.. The poor plants are stressed they don’t need to be trying to set seeds or supporting yellowing leaves. When you tidy them up they are really helped–and you get some encouragement–things are looking better already.
Third don’t give up on weeding. Weeds are cleaver plants and they can grab water and use it to set their seeds faster than one can believe–so don’t let them–you sure don’t need more weeds and your plants need all the water they can get.

Fourth–look for what is working. Which plants are showing a fighting spirit and a will to live they must be encouraged and rewarded–as they are encouraging and rewarding you.





But of course you must also face what isn’t working–Bite the bullet–remove dying plants there is just no use in trying to care for them and waste precious water on them–make a mental note to avoid them in the future.
Last–congratulate yourself!! you deserve it YOU STOOD YOUR GROUND NO YOU DIDN’T BACK DOWN YOU STOOD YOUR GROUND!!!
Susan Thornbury, Dallas County Master Gardener Class of 2008
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